Life purpose – do you really need it?

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Man hiking #masculine #essence #livinglove Life purpose -do you really need it?

This will largely depend on your core orientation to masculine or feminine essence. For the masculine essence, which is mostly men, purpose is central to his motivation. For the feminine essence, which is mostly women, love is central to her motivation. These days there is a lot of pressure to find your overarching life purpose. This will supposedly lead to greater … Read More

What is sexier? What is most loving?

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What is sexier? What is most loving?

What is sexier? What is most loving? What questions we ask has a profound effect on our lives and relationships. Let’s take some simple and frequent interactions between a couple. Who will put out the cat? Or plan the holidays? Who will take out the dirty rubbish? Who will wash up tonight? Or if you are dating – ‘Who will pay … Read More

Food for Love – for men & women

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#livinglove Food for Love

Have you ever wondered what makes a man or woman happy in relationship? What is food for love? Did you ever feel like your relationship is going stale or lacking appreciation? Are you longing to give and receive love in a way that opens you to more love? There are basic nutrients for love in a relationship such as authenticity, … Read More

How structure effects masculine and feminine essence

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How much structure we have in our lives effects our masculine and feminine essence in different ways. If you are a man spending a lot of your time in unstructured feminine flow can feel enormously pleasurable, but over time it will start to feel disturbing, unsettling and disempowering. If you are a woman and you do have not much structure in your life, strangely this … Read More

Strengthen and nurture your masculine or feminine essence

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You will not be surprised that one of my favorite subjects is masculine and feminine essence and polarity. When this connection and interplay is working well we feel enlivened, authentic, and like we have come home to ourselves. When it isn’t working so well we can feel somewhat uncomfortable, deadened, exhausted and uninspired with life or with our relationships. Or just having a sense that something could be better. There are numerous … Read More

Living a Passionate Life #4 – The breath is a key to openness and presence

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Living a Passionate Life #4 - The breath is the key to openness

The breath is fundamental as it allows us to live full and open, rather than shallow or contracted, in our energy, emotions and offerings. The breath is the life force and it also directs the flow of energy in our bodies and minds. Most of us are aware that when we are stressed and anxious our breathing comes fast and high up in the chest, … Read More

Living a Passionate Life #3 – integrating our shadows and kinks

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Darker energy creates more passion, and it gives us the rocket fuel to create our heart-goals – both in our relationships and in our work spheres. And how do we integrate these powerful forces to be living a more passionate life? Below are practical, real suggestions that help us integrate our shadows and kinks. It is not a process that happens … Read More

Living a Passionate Life #2 – balancing the energetic masculine and feminine

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Living Love - balancing the energetic masculine and feminine dance

Are you longing or waiting for your partner, or a potential partner, to be different? Would you like them to be more surrendered, or more claiming, in the relationship? Do you find yourself repressing your true intimacy needs because it seems so hard to find the right balance with another? If you are single, are you attracting people that don’t really meet you … Read More

Living a Passionate Life #1 – are you magnetic in your masculine or feminine essence?

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Do you find yourself being ignored by the opposite sex, or getting attention for the wrong reasons? Do others find you irresistible or are you more of the friend type, whether you are single or partnered? Is your lovemaking lacking passion and spiritual connection? Do you offer your gifts freely to others or tend to be withdrawn? Does living a … Read More

The Gift of Love at Christmas

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Give the gift of love

The greatest gift of love you can give to others at Christmas is to be fully engaged and lovingly present with them. To receive this is also a treasure. However, not everyone gets to experience this loving connection and Christmas can sometimes be fraught with stress and strained relationships. So I want to share with you 8 effective ways to bring the … Read More