Feminine Essence Pleasure Tips

Cynthia Connopessence, feminine, love, pleasure1 Comment

Female stone statue with flower

If like me you have a feminine essence, and this is most women, you will be happier when love is flowing through you and into your life. Being and doing what you love the way you want to. Being of service, being in extraordinary loving connection with family, partner, friends, mentors, community, pets, causes. The work world we live in … Read More

Men – ‘love surf’ the Feminine Mystery

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Tender moments

The Feminine Mystery. What does that mean? The feminine essence is mysterious, elusive, flowing and often unpredictable. Changing from soft and calm to fiery and chaotic. She defies rational thought and lives inside the great mystery of life. She seems to slide away just when you think you have her figured out. A mystery cannot be known, but it can be loved. If the Masculine essence … Read More

Nine tips to increase Intimacy and Love this Christmas

Cynthia Connopcouples, feminine, love, masculine, single0 Comments

If you want more intimacy and love this Christmas here are some tips that will help you navigate your way through the ‘silly season’. 1. Make it your own You decide what sort of Christmas holiday season you really want to have. Let’s make it a time of real Intimacy and Love, your way. This season of the year can be great fun but also it … Read More

Shopping & Your Sexual Essence

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Man and woman shopping

Men, shopping with your woman can be like foreplay or kill the romance. Women, shopping can be a spiritual practice or an expensive substitute for love. In general the masculine essence likes to shop functionally, taking as least time as possible. Mission focused. As Ernst Dams, Living Love co-facilitator, says, ‘efficient is the word that keeps coming up for me. … Read More

Online dating tips for Singles

Cynthia Connopdating, feminine, love, masculine, single11 Comments

woman with tablet

Over the last 15 years, like many of you, I have been partnered and single and understand the unique openings and challenges of both. Many of my single clients complain that they never meet potential partners and yet are reluctant to try online dating, or tried it and gave up. As it is the biggest source of single people looking for … Read More

Tips for Couples

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staring couple

When a woman supports a man in his need for freedom, to follow his mission and purpose in life, then he in turn wants to provide for, guide and protect his loved ones. He deepens in his masculinity and then this allows his woman to safely relax more into her feminine nature. The polarity then becomes like the yin/yang symbol, … Read More

The Light and the Dark

Cynthia Connopfeminine, love0 Comments

Being radically, lovingly present for yourself and your beloveds. If we risk opening to love and becoming more aware we risk experiencing strong emotions of every type, including the lighter and darker feelings. There are times when we are feeling great but what about when we are not on top of things, feeling anything but joyful or purposeful, or not … Read More

Fifty Shades of Love & Men’s challenge from Ernst

Cynthia Connopfeminine, love, masculine0 Comments

Fifty Shades of Love Sitting here in the warm winter sun I am reading what is remarkably the ‘fastest selling paperback of all time’. Fifty Shades of Grey has been dubbed ‘mummy porn’, erotica aimed at women over 30, and is reputedly awakening dormant female desire. It is very badly written, and dishes up a superficial depiction of sado-masochistic sex, ….and … Read More