Attraction, Alignment, Authenticity

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The 3 A’s of great relationships. Attraction, alignment and authenticity are three essential ingredients for wonderful relationships, friendships and collaborations. Remove one of these ingredients and it just doesn’t quite work. An energetic pull that draws you together 1. Attraction is central to all our relationships. There is sexual attraction with our intimate partners, the spark of masculine and feminine opposites. … Read More

What is sexier? What is most loving?

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What is sexier? What is most loving?

What is sexier? What is most loving? What questions we ask has a profound effect on our lives and relationships. Let’s take some simple and frequent interactions between a couple. Who will put out the cat? Or plan the holidays? Who will take out the dirty rubbish? Who will wash up tonight? Or if you are dating – ‘Who will pay … Read More

What a porn star taught me about Living Love

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I’m sitting in a New York taxi, speeding across town as the day turns into night, and I’m a little apprehensive. I’m not quite sure what I am in for. It’s the early nineties and I am making a feature length documentary film called ‘Sacred Sex’. Myself, and the associate producer Michael, have been travelling around the world meeting pioneering … Read More

Living a Passionate Life #4 – The breath is a key to openness and presence

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Living a Passionate Life #4 - The breath is the key to openness

The breath is fundamental as it allows us to live full and open, rather than shallow or contracted, in our energy, emotions and offerings. The breath is the life force and it also directs the flow of energy in our bodies and minds. Most of us are aware that when we are stressed and anxious our breathing comes fast and high up in the chest, … Read More

Living a Passionate Life #3 – integrating our shadows and kinks

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Darker energy creates more passion, and it gives us the rocket fuel to create our heart-goals – both in our relationships and in our work spheres. And how do we integrate these powerful forces to be living a more passionate life? Below are practical, real suggestions that help us integrate our shadows and kinks. It is not a process that happens … Read More

Love is a risk

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If Love is a risk, then why do it? What are you willing to risk for love? Love isn’t something we can control, organise, keep in a pretty box, a spreadsheet or an iphone. It isn’t anything we can rationally understand. Love flies is the face of our egoic structures that attempt to keep us safe and protected. It is a ’freefall’. Once … Read More