3 Love Myths revealed

Cynthia Connopfeminine, love, Love tips, masculine, relationships0 Comments

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Today I want to share with you 3 love myths about relating that I am regularly coming across. I want to reveal the truth about these myths, because they inhibit relationship and living fully. MYTH #1 ”I have to love myself before anyone else will. Otherwise I will attract the wrong sort of partner or bad behaviour from a current partner.’ This concept has some truth … Read More

What is sexier? What is most loving?

Cynthia Connopcouples, dating, essence, feminine, love, Love tips, masculine, passion, polarity, relationships, sexy, single, spiritually sexy0 Comments

What is sexier? What is most loving?

What is sexier? What is most loving? What questions we ask has a profound effect on our lives and relationships. Let’s take some simple and frequent interactions between a couple. Who will put out the cat? Or plan the holidays? Who will take out the dirty rubbish? Who will wash up tonight? Or if you are dating – ‘Who will pay … Read More

Food for Love – for men & women

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Have you ever wondered what makes a man or woman happy in relationship? What is food for love? Did you ever feel like your relationship is going stale or lacking appreciation? Are you longing to give and receive love in a way that opens you to more love? There are basic nutrients for love in a relationship such as authenticity, … Read More

What a porn star taught me about Living Love

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I’m sitting in a New York taxi, speeding across town as the day turns into night, and I’m a little apprehensive. I’m not quite sure what I am in for. It’s the early nineties and I am making a feature length documentary film called ‘Sacred Sex’. Myself, and the associate producer Michael, have been travelling around the world meeting pioneering … Read More

Difficult emotions – how to handle them

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How to handle unwanted emotions

I know from my own experience that unwanted or difficult emotions can be challenging. They can make you feel out of control, off purpose or simply distressed. Do you have bursts of anger that you later regret? Or do you experience an upwelling of sadness at unexpected moments? Do you find yourself often in emotional turmoil? Perhaps you suspect that your, or your partner’s emotions, are negatively effecting … Read More

How structure effects masculine and feminine essence

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How much structure we have in our lives effects our masculine and feminine essence in different ways. If you are a man spending a lot of your time in unstructured feminine flow can feel enormously pleasurable, but over time it will start to feel disturbing, unsettling and disempowering. If you are a woman and you do have not much structure in your life, strangely this … Read More

Strengthen and nurture your masculine or feminine essence

Cynthia Connopcouples, essence, feminine, masculine, polarity, relationships, single, spiritually sexy, Uncategorised0 Comments

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You will not be surprised that one of my favorite subjects is masculine and feminine essence and polarity. When this connection and interplay is working well we feel enlivened, authentic, and like we have come home to ourselves. When it isn’t working so well we can feel somewhat uncomfortable, deadened, exhausted and uninspired with life or with our relationships. Or just having a sense that something could be better. There are numerous … Read More

Living a Passionate Life #4 – The breath is a key to openness and presence

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Living a Passionate Life #4 - The breath is the key to openness

The breath is fundamental as it allows us to live full and open, rather than shallow or contracted, in our energy, emotions and offerings. The breath is the life force and it also directs the flow of energy in our bodies and minds. Most of us are aware that when we are stressed and anxious our breathing comes fast and high up in the chest, … Read More

Living a Passionate Life #3 – integrating our shadows and kinks

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Darker energy creates more passion, and it gives us the rocket fuel to create our heart-goals – both in our relationships and in our work spheres. And how do we integrate these powerful forces to be living a more passionate life? Below are practical, real suggestions that help us integrate our shadows and kinks. It is not a process that happens … Read More