Comments on: Being so caring isn’t so sexy https://livinglove.com.au/being-so-caring-isnt-so-sexy/ Singles and couples, enhance your relationships, improve intimacy and awaken your masculine and feminine essence. Thu, 09 Feb 2023 06:37:32 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.1.2 By: Cynthia Connop https://livinglove.com.au/being-so-caring-isnt-so-sexy/#comment-2142 Thu, 09 Feb 2023 06:37:32 +0000 https://livinglove.com.au/?p=4906#comment-2142 In reply to Meg.

Hi Meg,

I’m so glad you realised it wasn’t working for you and you had gotten into a pattern. Next time it can be different.

]]> By: Meg https://livinglove.com.au/being-so-caring-isnt-so-sexy/#comment-2068 Tue, 08 Nov 2022 03:06:59 +0000 https://livinglove.com.au/?p=4906#comment-2068 ]]> I morphed into a mothering role and his caretaker over the 30 years of our marriage. I didn’t notice it happening. And other men I related to, I have recognised since, I still showed myself in that role, it’s like that became all I knew. It kinda worked, it kept the peace. He was happy if I was in “looking after him mode” but not if I became assertive or contradictory or emotional. And eventually I realised I was miserable. Not at all sexy! 👎🏼

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