The 3A’s of great relationships – Attraction, Alignment and Authenticity are the three essential ingredients for great relationships, friendships and collaborations. Remove one of these ingredients and it just doesn’t quite work. An energetic pull that draws you together 1. Attraction is central to all our relationships. There is sexual attraction with our intimate partners, the spark of masculine and feminine … Read More
The Boat and the Ocean: Why Menopause Isn’t Just Happening to Her
As a relationship coach, I work with couples and singles. Each has their own unique challenges and goals. But I also see struggles and patterns that are common to many people. And one I want to share with you here is what often happens inside a relationship during menopause and midlife. There’s a lot written about how menopause affects women. … Read More
The Elastic Band Effect (Why You Keep Snapping Back)
Over many years I have personally attended multiple growth workshops and trainings, made trips to ashrams in India, and done heaps of individual and couples therapy. Like many people attending I would usually have an amazing time of connection, growth and insights. Mind-blowing, awesome, deep. Then came the next step where I’m going back into daily life and the demands … Read More
The Real Lover
The real lover isn’t the version of you that’s trying to get it right. Also it’s not just the more confident, more open, more aware you. The real lover is who you are when you feel safe enough to be fully yourself. Do you feel safe to be fully you in relationship? Do you trust that you’ll be appreciated and loved? … Read More
Your Sacred Lover
Most of us want real connection, where we feel seen, supported, and able to be fully ourselves. But in relationships, even good ones, it’s surprisingly easy to hold back. Your Sacred Lover is the part of you that knows what actually matters in love and freedom. Knows what inspires you, what you value, and the unique qualities you naturally bring … Read More
Polarity + Love
The polarity between masculine and feminine energies is what creates magnetic attraction and erotic connection between people. That can happen with a stranger, where there may be no love at all. When you have Polarity + Love you have a potent mix of desire and connection. Love provides the trust and the alignment, while polarity provides the desire and the … Read More
She wants to be met (by Him)
Women often ask “How do I get more of my needs met in a relationship? How can I get him to listen and be there for me? Where do I find a good partner who can truly meet me?” The feminine wants to be appreciated, loved and seen. She wants the feelings that move through her to be accepted, her … Read More
How to Stay Positive When Single
In our modern world there are unique challenges for singles. Online dating and the internet culture can be hard to navigate. And its easy to get discouraged or depressed by no-show coffee dates, ghosting, rude online behaviour, even meeting nice people you are not really attracted to. But the desire for an intimate relationship doesn’t go away, it just gets … Read More
Relationship Workshops – What Goes Wrong Can Come Right
Couples who come to the Living Love workshops do resolve many issues and problems in their intimate relationship. And beyond that the workshops take a couple into deeper, sacred connection, embodying their masculine and feminine essence. Then we see in relationship workshops that what goes wrong can come right. Men and women come to the Living Love workshops for many … Read More
Love – From Grit to Gold
Love isn’t always soft and shining. Sometimes, it’s gritty. In this article I explore how to turn Love – From Grit to Gold. We enter relationships – or seek them – with hope. We want connection, passion, ease. But life brings stress, emotional walls, disconnection. Maybe your partner feels distant or overly pleasing. Maybe there is no partner, and you’re left … Read More