Everyday miracles for couples means that by infusing our day to day lives with love and a spark of attraction, things may still be tense, stressful or downright tough, but the flame that you are nurturing between you is real and even magical. When we first fall in love with the ‘other’ there is often a period of grace where … Read More
Valentine’s Day – Beyond Romance
In current times Valentine’s Day is all about romantic love, expressed through flowers, gifts and special outings. It generally appeals to the feminine as a sign she is loved and valued. For the masculine it can be daunting or of little value to himself, so a deeper intention will likely help him embrace it. Valentine’s Day – Beyond Romance – … Read More
The Intimacy Keys: Unlocking the Art of Deep Connection
This blog is an invitation to both singles and couples to unlock deeper Intimacy and Connection in your life and relationships. Intimacy cannot be forced; it requires letting go of fear and resistance and becoming more open and receptive. Every step in that direction is a good one and like interest in the bank it compounds! As you read these … Read More
Valentine’s Day: Embrace or Escape?
Valentine’s Day has a rich history, encompassing both gruesome Christian martyrdom (Saint Valentine), pagan fertility rituals (a wild Roman festival), and romantic love (thanks to the likes of Shakespeare, Chaucer, and eventually Hallmark Cards). Today however Valentine’s Day is often associated with the commercial exploitation of romance. Our expectations of what the day should be like are shaped by media … Read More
Security and Sizzle
The beginning of the New Year is a good time for some forward movement in our lives and relationships. Not by pushing and prodding ourselves to do better (that didn’t work last year anyway, right) but by a sweet and clear reflection on what you want and need. It sounds simple but many of us are disconnected from what we … Read More
5 Tips for Your Intimacy Recharge
Christmas holidays are coming up and for many people it’s a time for family, friends, parties or just having a quiet break to restore and recharge after a busy year. Why not use this time to reignite your intimate life, whether you are single or partnered? Here are 5 Tips for Your Intimacy recharge. Our sexual energy and intimacy are natural … Read More
Being so caring isn’t so sexy
Are you stuck in being too caring in your relationships? Do you feel love but not attraction for your partner? Are you dating people who want you to be their friend but not their lover? Many of us are taught that it is good to be kind, caring, supportive and helpful in relationships. We are not told that this can … Read More
Are You Really Listening?
In the work I do with couples I find that being able to really listen to each other is a big factor in relationship satisfaction. And this is not just true for couples, it is important in all our relationships. In the article I want to share some insights and a case study to ask – Are you really listening? … Read More
5 Ways to Create (and keep) Attraction
Do you want to be wanted, and magnetic to love with a partner or future partner? Many of us do, and yet it isn’t always how we feel or what is happening. Attraction wanes, sex dies off, our spark is squished. How to create (and keep) attraction alive eludes us a lot of the time. When attraction works it’s a … Read More
The Union of Masculine and Feminine
The union of masculine and feminine is a wonderful meeting that can bloom in your own relationships and intimacy. It also shows a loving model for your family. Singles learn how to attract a partner who is their reciprocal, and this is sexy! In the pandemic era of the last two years, the lockdowns, isolation and divisions made it generally … Read More