Are you spiritually sexy?

Cynthia Connopcouples, essence, feminine, love, masculine, relationships, spiritually sexy2 Comments


Most of us have an idea of what it means to be sexy or to find someone else sexy. They have a vibrant sexual energy, are flirtatious, funny, open and available, confident, alluring, passionate. This can be highly desirable until we come across the spiritually sexy man or woman and it rocks our world. Are you spiritually sexy? Being spiritually … Read More

Men – ‘love surf’ the Feminine Mystery

Cynthia Connopcouples, feminine, love, masculine, single0 Comments

Tender moments

The Feminine Mystery. What does that mean? The feminine essence is mysterious, elusive, flowing and often unpredictable. Changing from soft and calm to fiery and chaotic. She defies rational thought and lives inside the great mystery of life. She seems to slide away just when you think you have her figured out. A mystery cannot be known, but it can be loved. If the Masculine essence … Read More

Nine tips to increase Intimacy and Love this Christmas

Cynthia Connopcouples, feminine, love, masculine, single0 Comments

If you want more intimacy and love this Christmas here are some tips that will help you navigate your way through the ‘silly season’. 1. Make it your own You decide what sort of Christmas holiday season you really want to have. Let’s make it a time of real Intimacy and Love, your way. This season of the year can be great fun but also it … Read More

Shopping & Your Sexual Essence

Cynthia Connopcouples, essence, feminine, masculine0 Comments

Man and woman shopping

Men, shopping with your woman can be like foreplay or kill the romance. Women, shopping can be a spiritual practice or an expensive substitute for love. In general the masculine essence likes to shop functionally, taking as least time as possible. Mission focused. As Ernst Dams, Living Love co-facilitator, says, ‘efficient is the word that keeps coming up for me. … Read More

Warrior Tips for Men

Ernst DamsLife tips, love, masculine0 Comments

man above clouds

In order to cultivate his masculine essence a man can increase the amount of ‘challenge’ he can handle in his body & mind, which will strengthen and ‘widen’ his presence, and increase his spiritual freedom. The masculine is most alive living at his ‘edge’ with the right amount of challenge to increase mastery of himself and how he relates to … Read More

Online dating tips for Singles

Cynthia Connopdating, feminine, love, masculine, single11 Comments

woman with tablet

Over the last 15 years, like many of you, I have been partnered and single and understand the unique openings and challenges of both. Many of my single clients complain that they never meet potential partners and yet are reluctant to try online dating, or tried it and gave up. As it is the biggest source of single people looking for … Read More

Tips for Couples

Cynthia Connopcouples, feminine, masculine0 Comments

staring couple

When a woman supports a man in his need for freedom, to follow his mission and purpose in life, then he in turn wants to provide for, guide and protect his loved ones. He deepens in his masculinity and then this allows his woman to safely relax more into her feminine nature. The polarity then becomes like the yin/yang symbol, … Read More

Living from the Warrior Heart

Ernst Damscouples, masculine0 Comments

The Warrior energy is found at the ‘darker’ end of the Masculine energy spectrum. It represents the part in us that would fight to protect our child or loved ones, fight to the death for our country, our beliefs or our mates. It can push through limitations and barriers to further our mission, our ambition and achieve our goals. The … Read More

Fifty Shades of Love & Men’s challenge from Ernst

Cynthia Connopfeminine, love, masculine0 Comments

Fifty Shades of Love Sitting here in the warm winter sun I am reading what is remarkably the ‘fastest selling paperback of all time’. Fifty Shades of Grey has been dubbed ‘mummy porn’, erotica aimed at women over 30, and is reputedly awakening dormant female desire. It is very badly written, and dishes up a superficial depiction of sado-masochistic sex, ….and … Read More