Attraction, Alignment, Authenticity

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The 3 A’s of great relationships. Attraction, alignment and authenticity are three essential ingredients for wonderful relationships, friendships and collaborations. Remove one of these ingredients and it just doesn’t quite work. An energetic pull that draws you together 1. Attraction is central to all our relationships. There is sexual attraction with our intimate partners, the spark of masculine and feminine opposites. … Read More

Feeling unseen or unvalued?

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Feeling unseen or unvalued?

Recently I did my first Facebook live video and it went very well!  The main thing, as always, is getting started. One lovely comment was “It was like watching you in circle…confident, feminine and open….beautiful”,  so that’s awesome feedback. Especially as a problem I had before doing my initial work on essence and polarity, (almost twenty years ago with the brilliant David Deida), was feeling unseen! Are … Read More

Clearing out the love junk

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This morning I found myself trying on my dresses to decide which to keep and which to let go of. I was in doubt about one or two and then it was clear – only what enhances my feminine essence and radiance stays in my wardrobe, and what makes me feel ‘ok’ is going! I was clearing out the love junk. The masculine version of this is letting go … Read More

3 Love Myths revealed

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Today I want to share with you 3 Love Myths about relating that I am regularly coming across. I want to reveal the truth about these myths, because they inhibit relationship and living fully. MYTH #1 ”I have to love myself before anyone else will. Otherwise I will attract the wrong sort of partner or bad behaviour from a current partner.” This concept has some … Read More

What is sexier? What is most loving?

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What is sexier? What is most loving?

What is sexier? What is most loving? What questions we ask has a profound effect on our lives and relationships. Let’s take some simple and frequent interactions between a couple. Who will put out the cat? Or plan the holidays? Who will take out the dirty rubbish? Who will wash up tonight? Or if you are dating – ‘Who will pay … Read More

Strengthen and nurture your masculine or feminine essence

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You will not be surprised that one of my favorite subjects is masculine and feminine essence and polarity. When this union and interplay is working well we feel enlivened, authentic, and like we have come home to ourselves. When it isn’t working so well we can feel uncomfortable, deadened, exhausted and uninspired with life or with our relationships. Or just having a sense that something could be better, or the passion is missing. … Read More

Living a Passionate Life #2 – balancing the masculine and feminine love dance

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Living Love - balancing the energetic masculine and feminine dance

Are you longing or waiting for your partner, or a potential partner, to be different? Would you like them to be more surrendered, or more claiming, in the relationship? Do you find yourself repressing your true intimacy needs because it seems so hard to find the right balance with another? If you are single, are you attracting people that don’t really meet you … Read More

How to increase your sexual essence

Cynthia Connopessence, feminine, Life tips, love, Love tips, masculine, polarity, sexy, spiritually sexy, woman0 Comments

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In my last blog I said I would suggest ways to increase your sexual essence – both masculine and feminine sexual essence. This improves well-being, relationships and sexual polarity. Here are some things you can do right now. Let’s start with the feminine……. FEMININE sexual essence  Shakti, the divine feminine creative power is in constant motion, flowing and ever-changing. Get moving to get in touch with … Read More

Discover your sexual essence

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In this blog I want to share some of my inspiration and information about sexual essence and polarity, so you can discover your sexual essence and know and live it more fully.  From who we are being, comes what we experience moment to moment. I have a passion for storytelling. Having been a filmmaker it’s not surprising. Nearly all of my films … Read More

Love is a risk

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If Love is a risk, then why do it? What are you willing to risk for love? Love isn’t something we can control, organise, keep in a pretty box, a spreadsheet or an iphone. It isn’t anything we can rationally understand. Love flies is the face of our egoic structures that attempt to keep us safe and protected. It is a ’freefall’. Once … Read More